5 THINGS TO WATCH OUT FOR BEFORE CHOOSING A PARTNER ON CAMPUS

This Article was compiled by CAMPUSLIT.COM and it is subjected to COPYRIGHT; Continue Reading and Enjoy.  5 THINGS TO WATCH OUT FOR BEFORE CHOOSING A PARTNER ON CAMPUS; MONEY This is discovered as the main side of attraction to the opposite sex. As a female are you simply dating him because he has Money? Or you’re the playboy type who is only interested in making her feel fly just so that spoilt rich girl can spend her Father’s money on you? Mostly ladies of nowadays are driven by the recent uprising of most guys involved in illegal businesses in which they lie for a living, as a lady dating such individual and expect that kind of guy to be faithful to her. It is highly impossible but most ladies are driven by the money they tend not to care and they let down their guard and end up turning themselves into prostitutes who only date for the money. Choosing a partner on campus simply has to do with love and patience which cannot be bought by any price. If you as a person you End up Dating the opposite sex just because he has Money, In a situation whereby he or she goes broke you end up switching partners by the time you realise it within your 4 – 5 Years stay on Campus you’ve had over a Dozen Partners which makes you no different from A H*o*e be it a male or Female. TOLERANCE You can’t possibly be in a relationship and not be the Tolerating Type. Before you choose a partner Watch for signs whether he or she can tolerate your kind of Attitude, if you choose a partner with a mindset of ” he or she will change when we start dating” It’s all a blatant lie that’ll lead you nowhere and Truth be told you’re just deceiving yourself. Imagine a scenario whereby you’re having a crush with someone who has anger issues and takes it hard on anyone who’s near him in which if care is not taking leads to a very tough fight. Or you are already in a relationship with a girl who goes to party almost every night and lies to you by giving flimsy excuses. You saw that attitude before dating her but you felt he or she will change. Don’t mistake your Tolerance for Stupidity. They are totally two different things. For you to tolerate an individual you’re interested in you have to be able to speak out to them, you Tolerating them in this context simply implies you studying such person’s relationship and interaction with others in order to fit in perfectly with your personality so as to avoid unexpected surprises and a benefiting way to deal with it. SELFISHNESS Different individuals place themselves on different self Esteem and Worth. The level of How you value your personality and your image is Known as Self Esteem, However, when those personality are valued too much and in the process deprives others of their privilege is known as Selfishness. Relationship-wise before engaging in anything know if your Man/Woman is an open minded individual who’s not aimed at only taking for him or herself alone what could be beneficial to others. Many notions have been driven and debated over and over again on how proper it is to give the opposite sex money in order to avoid being selfish in any kind. Talking from my own point of view with no sides taken, the interaction you Both have had morally, socially and otherwise judges the character of how he or she is willing to give out. Don’t misquote most Selfishness for Money alone. Although most are driven by money, but in choosing your partner you’re not interested in his money but the opposite sex is not interested in giving anything out of any kind. It is advisable to avoid such as both partners tend to look for greener pastures elsewhere if they later get into a relationship on Campus. PRIDE As i have earlier said it all boils down to your self Esteem, Pride comes before a Fall, you as an individual on Campus single ready to mingle puts yourself above others thinking no one can out-throne you maybe because of your looks, academic ability, popularity, money, .. Etc. If you fall in that category, either you’re the one with the pride or the one having a crush on someone with Pride issues. The best possible thing to do is to try as much as possible to let him know how he or she is been perceived to be, and try to help alleviate the before getting into the relationship. However is such individual tend not to yield I’ll simply advise you to take a step back then move ahead to a better option, Pride comes before a fall doesn’t mean you have to fall for the Pride. APPEARANCE A Popular saying goes thus ” the way you dress is the way you’d be addressed” Choosing a partner on campus os highly skeptical and is not suppose to be a random thing anyone can just hop into anyhow as it is nowadays. Your appearance shows the manner at which people will socialise and relate with you. Having to deal with an embarrassment as a boyfriend or girlfriend is highly uncalled for and could have been dealt with if proper measures were taken, been tidy produces a decent individual which boosts a dress sense. You don’t expect to be dressed as A prostitute and expect any decent man in his right senses to approach you. Or rather a guy sagging his Pants and expect to meet a good lady to have a relationship with. In choosing a person on campus first of all look at how this individual dresses, the manner at which he or she relates, response to certain circumstances, and how he’s been viewed to be also from your own point of view. As far as all this criteria are met, hope only for the best and you’re Good to Go. Written by; Ademoyegun Ayomide Joseph (Campuslit.com Writer)